Last night my son hit me, and I didn’t cry. This morning, I brought out the good tablecloth, prepared breakfast as if it were a celebration, and when he came downstairs smiling, he said, “So you finally figured it out”… until he noticed who was sitting at my table.
“If you tell me no one more time, I swear you’ll regret ever having me.”
When my son said that in our kitchen in a small town outside Monterrey, I told myself it was just another outburst—another excuse I had been clinging to for months so I wouldn’t have to face what was obvious. But that night, I wasn’t looking at a confused boy anymore. I was looking at a twenty-three-year-old man who had learned to turn frustration into intimidation.
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